When you want to be a success in flirting, it all begins with the state of mind you are in. Some people are naturally people-oriented, who loves to spend time with friends and acquaintances, have a jolly good sense of humor and has a very natural way with those of the opposite sex.
These people make very successful flirts in an Interracial Relationship. Because you feel good about yourself, you make others feel good too. There is an obvious way to learn to be innocent and child-like at times.
You could master and use the skills of NLP (Neuro-linguistic programming) to do these things – like use the swing in the park, jump in a puddle or spontaneously laugh at the smallest joke. You have to teach yourself to look at people not just as people but a convenient resource to open your doors to newer faces, newer ideas and newer challenges.
In some pursuits in life, the end justifies the means. In flirting too, forget what you will achieve, think how you can contribute in the connection just made. Stop worrying about what impressions you will create or what signals the partner will carry back home.
Pretensions soon land you in a friend-less situation where opportunities become rare everyday. Needless to mention, you must show yourself in a good and pleasant light.Success is jumping from one failure to another, till you reach your goal. As Bobby Charlton said “if you don’t shoot you won’t score, if you do shoot, you may score, if you never shoot you will never score”.
